If you would live for someone, in the future they would suffer and you would suffer because you are too attached to each other. If you would live for yourself, other people would live for you.

The problems do not go away by themselves, therefore you should get the professional help and get the best advice on saving your marriage as possible.
I have to recommend you the program called "Save My Marriage Today!"
If you are having problems because of finances, if you are having difficulties with your partner, and so on and forward. Any problem can be solved, remember that. If there was no solution for the problem, there wouldn't be any, right?
It is up to you to save your happiness and your loved ones happiness also.
Be person responsible in your relationship, and then you will have thing go the way you want them to.