Every woman works hard to develop her flirting skills, and some of them are better at it than others are. There is no reason why you cannot work on your skills, too, and learn effectively how to flirt with a guy.
Flirt from Within
Face it; if you don't feel flirty, you aren't. There is good and bad body language, and women who flirt for success know that positive language gets a guy's attention. Wear clothes that make you feel pretty. Practice on your smile in the mirror and find out which one is the most flirtatious.
Remove the Barrier
If you want to flirt, and be flirted with in return, you are going to need to remove any barriers. If you position yourself in a crowd of friends, a guy might not want to approach you for fear of public rejection and humiliation. If you want to flirt with a guy and get a response, make it easy on him to get to you without feeling threatened.
Seeing Eye to Eye
You want to make eye contact when you flirt with a guy, however you don't want to gawk or stare. Overdoing the eye contact when flirting makes you look like a stalker or a psycho. Catch his eyes, hold them for a few seconds, and look away. Several minutes later, look his way again. If he catches your eyes once again, he's probably interested.
It's All About Me
It is okay to reveal information about yourself, but it is not all about you. Don't hog the conversation, and don't go on and on about yourself. You'll bore him to death. Let him talk, too, and listen to what he says. If he thinks you are not listening to him and that you are totally self-involved, he'll read the signs and realize he's made a mistake.
Leave the Phone Alone
In the midst of flirting, don't start texting or talking on your cell phone. It might make him think you have a boyfriend already, and it shows a lack of interest in the flirting game at hand. Whoever it is will call back later, and texting your friend back will wait.
Come Closer
Once you are past the initial flirting stages, add some spark. Seize opportunities where they exist. Reach out and touch his hand, accidentally brush up against him, lean in and whisper something just for him to hear.
Graceful Acceptance
If a guy pays you a compliment, accept it with grace and sincerity. If he likes your dress, respond with something like "Yes, I saw this dress on the rack and just had to have it." Do not respond with something negative or like "Oh, it's okay, but I have some much nicer ones I like better."
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