If you are reading this article, you probably are a broken hearted soul who has done almost everything to get his ex girlfriend back and are feeling at wit's end now. Always remember, it is not just you! There are thousands of men facing the same dilemma after taking sudden decisions and regretting them later on.
Men have mercurial feelings and starts thinking negative as soon as the relationship does not turn out the way they thought it would. One thing that a man needs to understand is that every person comes with his/her baggage of positives and negatives.
Loving the positives and hating the negatives will yield no solution. So, if you are in a relation ship, let the warning bell of sparks fizzing out die for sometime. And, if you have already done the harm, we can only be a guide to get your ex girlfriend back. The rest depends on you.
Things to remember while wanting to or trying to get back into a relationship with ex girlfriend-
? How was the parting scene? Was it mutual or was it bitter? If mutual, before expressing your bouts of wanting to get back you need to know if it is infatuation or love. Are you getting back because you did not find another girl? Is it that you have started missing her and understanding what she actually meant to you? If the later half holds true for you, send the message across subtly.
? The first thing you should remember is -do not act needy. The girl definitely loves this no doubt but over a period of time when your angst will come out, she is bound to get repelled and you will lose her for the worse. The point is to make your feeling reach out to her in the most cordial way.
? If you have been calling and messaging only to get ignored, get the message across straight and clear. She does not want to be with you anymore!! There is no point giving up your ego and going on with the same issue when the other person is sending the message out cold and crisp. If she does response, voila! You have a chance! Act smart and suave. Do not overflow with the joy of her talking with you.
? When she is responding fine, start normalizing things. This does not mean sending her bouquet of flowers and a heartwarming card. First, be her friend who is willing to be by her side no matter what. You need to regain her trust and confidence to strengthen the relationship for the better.
? Avoid doing things that offend her. If she does not like being called by lovey dovey names, do not tread that path. Remember, it is easier to offend a woman than please her.
? Let her know that you still care and things will follow suit. Believe in yourself and in your love. You are bound to win her back in no time.
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