In all affairs of love and war, one thing holds true. Women want to know how to get and keep a man. That leads to the subject of how to please a man after you have him. If you do not learn how to do this, you might lose him.
The Element of Surprise
Men love it when you surprise them, depending on the surprise, of course. Put some satin sheets on the bed. Light some candles. Put on some sexy new lingerie. Lure him into your lair, and let nature take its course.
Pillow Talk
Learn to talk dirty to him. I'm not talking about cursing like a foul mouthed sailor. I'm talking about sex talk. It takes a bit of practice to do this without laughing or being embarrassed. Practice in the mirror some first, and when you get the hang of it, give it a try. You might be surprised at the results.
Know His Hot Spots
Men like it that you know what turns them on. They also like it when you use this information to please them. Explore his body and get to know his hot spots. Then move in and give it your all. Don't be shy, and don't hesitate to ask him what he really wants; be prepared to oblige, within reason of course.
Indulge Fantasies
There are couples who have lived together for many years. They've experienced many things together, yet they are too shy to talk to each other about their sexual fantasies. Let the armor down and openly discuss your fantasies together. Have date night once weekly and bring one of them to life.
Sensual Massage
Get some massage butter or lotion. Regular lotion just does not work. Ask him to undress and lie on the bed. Massage him from head to toe. This includes neck, back, arms, shoulders, hands, fingers, buttocks, waist, legs, feet, and so on. Do a good job. He will be like putty in your hands. Take advantage of it.
Some Enchanted Evening
Everyone has heard the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. There are other ways, too, but food is a common one. Cook his favorite dish. Chill a nice bottle of wine. Create a romantic candlelight table setting. Feed him. Have on some incredibly sexy lingerie under your dress. After dinner, slip off your dress, and serve him dessert.
Take the Helm
Men do like to be in charge a lot of the time. Sometimes, however, they get tired. Every once in a while, men love it when a woman takes charge. Roll him over occasionally in bed and get on top. Tie his arms to the bed posts with scarves and "have your way." You might be surprised at the results.
original article
